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Muslim Women – Hijab vs. Niqab, Plans for Peace, NYC

Today, I learned the difference between hijab and niqab. For Muslim women a Hijab is a headcovering or modesty. A niqab covers the whole face (except for the eyes). A women sitting on the subway next to me was dressed in full niqab. Her face was covered except for her pretty eyes. (I think people will fetishize what they cannot see, her eyes were a heck of a lot more intriguing than Britney Spears; and it is not a common choice in NYC.) She wore long sleeves and also gloves…fyi nyc summer has begun.

By furtive glances, I noticed her eyes and that she was dozing a bit as I do in the mornings with her bags in her lap. Her two gloves were mismatched colors (dark blue and black) and underneath her long dress as she got off the train I noticed she had on white socks.

Told my Israeli coworker Naomi about this….her response: they’re crazy….I said it was similar to religious Jewish women covering up….she agreed but retorted….they’re crazy too….they are alike….

So we just have to get people to see their similarities…or an ingenius plan I heard in a recent documentary I went to see Encounter Point about workers for Peace in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict….make all the smokers get their cigarettes from either the territories or Israel whichever is the home of The Other and people will get along in service of their nic fits…

I think it’s neat that except for a glance or two, at the odd sight of it, people went about their business. It’s one of the things I like about NYC…The countdown to leaving has begun so of course I have to appreciate it before I go.

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Swimming in Auschwitz at the Museum of Jewish Heritage

Holocaust Survivor Renee Firestone and Director Jon Kean

my flickr: Swimming in Auschwitz Set

Went with Jason to see the NYC / East Coast Premiere of Swimming in Auschwitz at the Museum of Jewish Heritage in Lower Manhattan.

It is a documentary about six vibrant, amazing women who survived the infamous Nazi death camp of Auschwitz.

Director Jon Kean was in attendance along with Renee Firestone one of the women featured in the film. [Photo above.]

It was really magnificent, I highly recommend it. Editor Anne Stein did a fantastic job seamlessly blending stock footage and the stories of these women so that their narratives kept a collective, cooperative flow.

Director Jon Kean prefaced the screening by stating his view of the difference between how men and women tell stories. A man will tell you the facts of what happened. Women will recall the quirky details.

After the screening the pair came on stage and answered audience questions – my notes below.

Renee Firestone describes the first time she ever spoke about her experience. (She is an educator for the Simon Wiesenthal Center.) It was at a Mormon Temple and they screened the very graphic French documentary Night and Fog (1955) [I remember seeing it in high school.]. She was hoping people would leave. She was surprised that nobody moved and was told by Rabbi Cooper that she must speak. She started to talk and has no idea where the strength came from.

In response to a question about seeking retribution she states that there was very little retribution. They just wanted to live lives. And, telling stories is revenge.

An Israeli woman asks how she feels about 70,000 Jews marching to Washington to protest Darfur but not protesting Ahmadinejad, President of Iran, who has called for Israel’s destruction. The woman, it seemed, equated this to ignoring Hitler.

Renee Firestone responds that she has been involved in protesting every single genocide. We have lived in the bloodiest century. When she sees footage (of Darfur), she sees herself in Auschwitz and asks her interlocuter what she has done?

[Jewish organizations have protested Ahmadinejad. Others have kept busy with other issues, feeling that to protest him on a grand scale would be giving him power and more of a platform on the World stage or that it might be viewed as inflating the risk for political purpose.]

When asked about the reaction of German audiences to the film Renee Firestone describes her involvement with One By One an organization that facilitates dialogue between descendants of victims, perpetrators, bystanders and resisters. She spent a week together with a Nazi in Berlin. She was glad she went. She learned how easy it is to be indoctrinated, brainwashed or just give in to peer pressure. She does not know what she would have done and relates that one can never know unless placed in a situation. Similarly, one doesn’t know how much strength they have until it is called upon.

Director Jon Kean recommends seeing The Last Days, another documentary that Renee Firestone is featured in. During filming, they found documentation related to a doctor who experimented on her sister and she finds and confronts him at the end of the film.

A young woman who is reading Elie Wiesel’s Night asks if she ever has flashbacks to her experiences. Renee Firestone replies, all the time, plus she speaks about her experiencees every day. Sometimes a flash of an experience will hit her out of nowhere. Director Jon Kean adds that when Survivors agree to be interviewed they relate that the next 2 or 3 nights after an interview will be especially difficult.

He is asked how he came to the project and responds that he began the project to study laughter as a survival tool. Men would say sometimes there was humor, and they would laugh, but could not pin down specific details for him. He became enamored of how these women told stories.

She is asked her opinion of God’s role and about faith. She responds that she has so much faith she doesn’t believe God had anything to do with the atrocities. She relates the story of Noah and the Flood and the promise given by God that he will never destroy the world again…she quips that it’s a shame he did not extract the same promise from Noah / Man.

She responds to a question about survival saying it was pure luck. Director Jon Kean adds three elements that helped people to survive according to Michael Berenbaum based on previous events they had done together. [Berenbaum was supposed to be moderator for the evening but couldn't make it due to bad weather.] Assessing Risk, Finding Meaning, Having people to support you are three elements that repeat in tales of survival. They’re not bad things to have in general.

One man in the audience whose father was a survivor originally from Muncacz [Hungary] asked about the responses of former neighbors after the War. His father’s experience were incredulous responses of “You’re still alive?!” “Can’t Believe they didn’t get you!”…Her husband is originally from Muncacz and there is footage in the film of people dancing from Muncacz…Renee Firestone relates meeting her next door neighbor after the war who was about 10 at the time and wondering what his family said about her family being taken away. He said they were sorry her sister died. But, she relates bitterly that nobody asked at the time. Nobody cared. This is one of the only points in the evening that this amazing woman gives in to negativity. Director Jon Kean adds that some may have been sorry their neighbors were gone but it did improve their lives economically.

A woman in the audience asks about the cruelty of female Nazis which is not depicted in this film about women. Renee Firestone agrees that the capacity of women for cruelty was worse and recalls a guard from Auschwitz C Lager who was hung after the war. I believe the reference was to Irma Grese who was hung at the Belsen trial.

To conclude the evening the question of retribution is raised again and how she felt when one of the other women in the film relates that at liberation she was given the chance to kill one of her persecuters but does not take it…Renee Firestone replies we are not killers though she wouldn’t be sorry if someone else killed them. This last bit said with the smile of someone who has survived, amazingly, with her sense of humor intact.

I overheard a woman in the bathroom complain that the film made light and didn’t show what really happened, children being torn from their parent’s arms. She may have been a Holocaust survivor and I would not try to dispute her response to the film. My take on it was quite different. It was a unique perspective on the horrors that occurred. I hope I would never have to confront such horrors and if I did I hope I would be able to keep my humanity intact via my sense of the absurd. Also, there actually is some very graphic documentary footage in the film. You are not hit over the head with the brutality that occurred but the footage is there and it is a subcurrent running throughout the film which should be viewed in advance before showing it to young people.

Upcoming screenings are taking place in London, England and Salt Lake City, Utah. You can check the official website for additional screenings or just buy the DVD (there’s a link for purchase on the site) for $20 via Paypal.

I am torn about writing a summary of the film as opposed to the evening because I think it should be viewed so for now am not going to do so.

Article on the film here.

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Five Boro Bike Tour

Did the Five Boro Bike Tour yesterday. 42 MILES!! A few days prior I was considering selling my number on craigslist…I didn’t know if I was up to 40-something miles for my once-or-twice-a-year bike ride. Over PB+J sandwiches from Sparky’s with Eduardo, Fidencia and Evan I was convinced. Besides it is part of my goodbye to NYC.

Woke up at 5:00 AM. Registration was between 6:30-7:45AM according to the website and ride was supposed to start at 8:00AM…I could have woken up at least an hour later. Since I had my vest already I just had to show up – even getting there at 7:30 AM was early – since the ride didn’t start until at least 8:15 AM.

At the beginning and at some points in the middle there was so much congestion with 32,000 riders that you had to walk your bike, and generally the ride is a slow one. While this might suck for an experienced rider this was perfect for me. My mom went to the Salute to Israel Parade and ran into a family that decided to leave the ride because of how frustrated they were….she didn’t mention that what frustrated them was actually ideal for me :-)….

There was some entertainment at the beginning of the ride and along the route in the form of flying inflatable balls being passed along the crowd during the wait for the ride to start, some folks on stilts, Cousin Brucie announcing where people were from, a man in little girl drag with blond pigtails sitting on a large tricycle wishing people a good ride and some jugglers. One bus shelter along the route held a steel drum band and Commerce Bank who sponsored the ride had people in sections to cheer.

The rest areas also sometimes had music and food for purchase. Being given out foodwise there were bananas and oranges being handed out. Drinks were slightly more varied with water and different juices. Tour de Brooklyn rules with their peanut butter and jelly bagels.

People in groups decorated their helmets to make them more visible. Attached to helmets were flowers, ribbons, stuffed animals, beer / energy drink cans, palm trees, arrows and flags – nationality and sports teams. My favorite were a group that had furry rats attached on little platforms, each rat wore a little fluorescent bike helmet.

The basic route info can be found on the Bike New York website. The detailed route is on the NYC.GOV website. It is really neat to ride on highways and bridges without cars.

Anyone considering doing the ride who is intimidated shouldn’t be. You might feel ridiculous for feeling scared when you see little kids doing the ride on their tiny bikes with even tinier wheels (I did, a bit.). There are parts where you walk because of congestion and there are plentiful rest areas (5 before the end.) The pace is really comfortable / easy, partially because of how many people there are. The ride was capped at 32,000 this year and was sold out before ride day. Definitely register before ride day to ensure you will be able to ride and there may be a discount for early registration.

On my way to the Staten Island Ferry I ran into Steve. Hung out with him at his place for a little while. The stopping moving made it very difficult to move later when I walked the 2 miles to the ferry. He accompanied me and either way don’t think my body was willing to get back on the bike. I was completely stiff. To make things worse we went up the ramp to the regular ferry entrance only to be told we would have to go all the way around – bikes (and their riders) were being loaded on the lower level (that used to be for cars). From the ferry caught the R train and then transferred to the Q. Then the hardest ride of the day was the 1 mile from the train station home. I’m hoping my ass will forgive me someday soon :-) or at least before June 3rd.

Lining Up for the Bike Tour

Lining Up for the Bike Tour

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May 2nd – Björk at Radio City Music Hall Photo Gallery

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May 2nd – Björk at Radio City Music Hall and Apologies to Idan Raichel

Bjork at Radio City Music Hall 2-May-2007

Bjork at Radio City

Randomly had a hotel room not far from the show for the night through work. Watched some Bravo before going, an episode of Project Runway [Finale of Season 2] and Shear Genius which I had never seen before. Headed over to Radio City,

Bjork at Radio City Music Hall 2-May-2007

Bjork at Radio City

Row F in the orchestra is way further back then it should be because Radio City is one of these venues with double letter rows before single letter.

Konono N°1 were the opening act. They were ok if a bit repetitive by the end of their set. Made me yearn for the Afro-Cuban All Stars.

Björk was great but the venue was really wrong for her. I remember seeing her at the Tibetan Freedom Festival and much prefer seeing her outdoors. A lot of the crowd was dead and the energy of the hardcore people got lost.

One of the more bizarre points in the evening was when I told the guy next to me I think she has a wooden leg attached. The beats were really cool and I literally could have sworn for a bit that she had a third leg on that she was using to bang on the stage and create the extra beats. I took a bunch of photos focusing on her legs to prove / disprove the notion. It was actually a bit of fabric hanging form the dress that I was misinterpreting. It’s kind of funny that I didn’t think it too weird for her.

RCMH setlist is below. I am a bit jealous of those who saw her at United Palace theatre because they got Hunter and Immature (and Bachelorette and Hyperballad). Though we got All Is Full of Love and Jóga so I guess it balances out.

Setlist:

01 Earth Intruders*
02 Venus as a Boy
03 Aurora
04 I See Who You Are**
05 Oceania
06 Dull Flame of Desire***
07 All is Full of Love
08 The Pleasure is All Mine
09 Pagan Poetry
10 Jóga
11 Where is the Line
12 Army of Me
13 Innocence
14 Wanderlust
15 Pluto

Encores:

16 [encore break]
17 [band introductions]
18 Anchor Song
19 Declare Independence

*With Konono N°1
**With Min Xiao-Fen
***With Antony Hegarty

After the show I was hanging out by the stage door, at first in hopes of taking a photo of the setlist under the false assumption that the hardcore folks who nabbed it would be hanging out.

Saw Idan Raichel waiting around too. Normally I wouldn’t go over to someone famous but what the hell Bjork wasn’t coming out…Ended up talking to him about the Bjork show – he was really impressed by Antony Hegarty [Antony and the Johnsons] and about seeing him perform in The Idan Raichel Project’s very first show in Tel Aviv. I had even seen him perform back in the day when he was the keyboard player for Ivri Lider. It seems he is in NY a fair bit these days because he’s got a gorgeous NYC girlfriend.

Idan Raichel at Bjork Show

Idan Raichel with fans

I channeled my mother for this picture. These two fans came over and told him they were fans. Without asking him if it was ok I asked them if they wanted a picture with him. Then, I said – if that’s ok with you….it would have been assholic for him to refuse just like it was assholic for me to do what I did….It was a bossy, Israeli, Jewish mother – the matter was settled before he was consulted, like I said assholic thing for me to do. The girls got a cute picture…Sorry Idan….it was ridiculous. The price of fame I guess…

Didn’t end up waiting for Bjork. Had a great salad to go from Metro Cafe and got back to my hotel room to watch some more Bravo. I really don’t get the show Work Out.

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